Embrace Pornography

Embrace pornography so that you might better understand who and what you are. 

You're never going to discover it without that. 

You can make do with a certain kind of mate. But to find the perfect mate, you're going to have to explore the darker sides of your pornographic interests.

I have heard Brett Weinstein come down hard against pornography. And it's my guess that he is expressing these concerns about his own near-adult childrens' interests in pornography. And he's also afraid of his own dark interests in pornography. He's making this thing theological. Basically, he's playing Hitler and ramming his narrow views down "whoever will listen's" throat. He is afraid to know his own self. But we must know ourselves.

Because, otherwise, we might choose to take on a life, a married life, with a very special someone and learn to put up with their shortcomings, and how they don't fulfill us completely, and by that I mean "sexually." So many of us learn to put up with this crap. We have learned how to settle for less than what we need deep down, and we end up living an unfulfilled life that's got a big hole in it.

See, you are going to have people who come across your path. Potential mates. But that might not be enough. You may have to go to where your people are. You may live so far out in the boonies that they don't exist where you presently live.

And that gravitational principle that I'm so fond of, it's such a load of shit. Because, at the end of the day, you may have to play the role of gravity.

To use a high-school football analogy, you may have to move the goal posts into a whole different region and classification.

As much as I want to like Brett Weinstein, he is the thought police. We are his cattle. He tells us what the right way to think is and what the wrong way to think is. He already has too much power. He already has too many followers. He has the seductive pied piper way about him. You have to be a soldier, but also your own leader. Like it or not, that's your responsibility. None of us can be followers. We are individuals, with individual needs. And they are significantly different than other people's needs. It is true that we are like-minded in a lot of ways, but Brett thinks all the ways in which we are different can be discarded. He attempts this in an effort to make us fit his mold. This process that we are opting into is highly destructive to our core being.

Like Brett, my dad was a brilliant man. And like Brett, he had a blind spot when it came to sexual orientation. My dad also had the blind spot of not being able to properly comprehend race relations. Remember that, even though Brett and my dad were great men, they were still just men. And men are highly fallible.